PRO Tip 1: Life Isn't Fair

Hate to break it to you, Sunshine, life isn't fair.  Other people will have more talent, more money, better hair, perkier tits, and/or bigger wangs.  Deal with it.  Change what you can.  Train better, eat smarter, study race tactics.  I know a lot of people who have very little natural talent, but more than made up for it with hard work.